The structural changes and the microwave dielectric properties of $Ba_{1-x}$/A$_{x}$/(Mg$_{1}$3//Nb$_{2}$3/)O$_3$(A=Sr, Ca=x0, 0.2, 0.4, 0.6, 0.8, 1.0) were investigated. The densities of samples are gradually decreased with increasing x(BMN=6.1, SMN=5.22 and CMN=4.26 g/m$^3$)The crystal structure of BMN was untilting of oxygen octahedral. The structural changes of BSMN showed the antiphase tilting at x>0.4, and those of BCMN showed the antiphase tilting at 0.2<x<0.8 and antiphase-inphase tilting at x>0.8. The variation of dielectric constant with Sr was small(BMN=32, SMN=30) However the variation with Ca was large the highest value was 42 at Ca=0.2(CMN=25) The maximum quality factor was 68,000 GHz at Sr=0.2 and the minimum quality factor was 3,000 GHz at Ca=0.2 (BMN=35,000, SMN=20,000 and CMN=23,000 GHz) The temperature coefficients of resonant frequency of BSMN were about 2 times larger than those of BCMN in all composition.ion.