This study Analysis of differences between men and women’s awareness is needed for developing the Healthy marital Relationship program of a middle aged couples. Therefore concept-map analysis about What Healthy relationship of middle aged Couples is and How to maintain Healthy relationship between a husband and a wife. Looking at the results of the analysis, the men and women’s common point of a Healthy marital relationship is to strive for the children's growth together with the consideration and respect and understand the differences and trust each other. Elements for a healthy couple are frank dialogues and understanding and recognition about past life, the acceptance of negative aspects and respect through consideration. This study has Limitations because Interview area was not widely distributed, therefore the representative of the results were limited.