The purpose of this article is to compare the communication of T.A. and Gottman's Couples Therapy. The points of sameness are 1) possible in short term counselling 2) to use scientific approach 3) possible in making use of educational aspect not only for cure and 4) emphasizing positive viewpoint for humanbeing and ‘now& here’ 5) to do communication and get close each other by using the word ‘I ’ instead of ‘You’. The differences are “In case of T.A.” 1) to analyse the pattern of transaction and stress redecision 2) to analyse communication by classifying three egos 3) to solve the problem under the proposition "environment is object of overcome. However, Gottman proposes 1) to try to solve 31 % of the problem and passby 69% unsolvables. 2) couples prticipate together to the program and then 3) to improve the relationship through interaction.