This article is about shame and schema. This article assumes that every professional caregiving acts on its own schema. This article argues that schema orients future acts whatever it is a caregiver’s act or a caretaker’s act that reflects shameful experiences. Two major paradigms of shame will be addressed; they are ‘Internal Oriented Paradigm’and ‘Relational Paradigm.’This article will explore these paradigms critically and attempts to find each schema that strongly operates in them. This article will end with pastoral suggestions, hoping to enhance pastoral care and counseling for people whose major emotional predicament is shame.