The purpose of this study was to find both theological reflection and systematic approach model based on the case of visitor who has ever experienced religious identity crisis. This study was performed as qualitative research focused on the practical experience of a young man who his parents pushed him to have their religion-Jehovah’s Witnesses. For methodological balance, systematic thinking and oriental thinking were combined into one. As a result, theological reflection through this study included a damaged image on the Lord, an escape from reality, and an argument between forgiveness and reconciliation. In conclusion, the problems of visitor, who his parents had constantly pushed him to have Jehovah’s Witnesses, were not just the problem what to do with his life or the problem of religious freedom. He had such problems as surroundings around himself and his family, and‘ having a relation’with the Lord.