This study investigated the meaning and intention of backgrounds inherent in the patriarchal behavior and the process of introspecting the part that I myself could not be aware of, playing the role as a patriarch. To attain this purpose, self-retrospection, interviews, bibliographic data and interactional dialogues were collected, reviewed and analyzed to make categories, and the processes that I myself, who did patriarchal behavior, was changed were described through interpretation of results. ‘I’, who grew up watching my father, the model of patriarchy, recognized ‘I’ did the patriarchal behavior, learned through the relationship with my wife, in the role as a patriarch. Finally, ‘I’ recognized we were interconnected with each other as experiencing comfort and introspection, by trying communication with my wife before seeking change in my behavior. The idea that a patriarch is patriarchal implies an issue of communication, not of acts. This study is expected to contribute to providing a clue for patriarchs and family members, by implying importance of interconnection through communication, to maintain empathic contact with family members when a patriarch plays his role.