This study aims to convey the voices and experiences of Korean women who have lived in conflictive and abusive marital relationships by using the interdisciplinary perspective. While women remaining in conflictive and abusive marital relationships have been negatively perceived as having low–esteem or being passive and dependent, this study explores Korean women’s lives and experiences in a holistic approach which includes psychological, socio–economic, socio–cultural, and religious/spiritual aspects. In order to hear their experiences, I use the qualitative research method of phenomenology and collect data from in–depth interviews with seven Korean women whom I met from June)014 to October)014. Their stories are reflected and analyzed based on George Fitchett’s model in the interdisciplinary approach. This approach facilitates reflection not only on women’s decision making processes in their own context, family, society, and culture, but also aids exploration of their expressions of life agency and resilience which have rarely investigated or have been underestimated in the discussion of women in conflictive and abusive marital relationships. The results reveal the complexities of women’s identity, knowing and decision–making, and spirituality and also encourage embracing the complexities of women’s lives, so that they can be better understood and receive better help, without being criticized and blamed for their ways of living.