This study is to explore the nurturing attitude changes via an Active Parenting Today(APT) targeted to the wife as a domestic violence victim parenting. In a particular, this was focused to identify what would happen to the nurturing attitude in the post-APT program and to make measure the democratic civility, autonomy, affection, and acceptance as sub-components of the nurturing attitude against children. In order to do this, I surveyed 20 mothers who had visited K Family Counseling Office in Y city of Kyungnam Province and further asked to be client for counseling. These were divided into two groups, an experiment group with 10 mothers, and another control group with 10 ones. The primary findings are as followed: 1) Concerned with the pre-test of APT program, the commonality between experiment and control group were verified by the statistical analysis of Mann-Whitney as a nonparamatic method; 2) Based on the Wilcoxon Matched-Pairs signed Rank method, I found the positive change in the nurturing attitude of experiment group, while not happened to the control group; 3) There existed the remarkable significance between experiment and control group in terms of pre-test and post test, regarding to democratic civility, independent action, affection, and acceptance comprising the sub-factors of the nurturing attitude against children; 4) After 6-month with the end of this experiment program, the additional proving experiment was performed, and showed nearly non-changed effects on total nurturing attitude and its sub-components such as democratic civility, independent action, affection, and acceptance. The next study will be focused on identifying diverse characteristics about the nurturing attitude against children, and further developing more effective preventing strategies against husband-to-wife violence.