In modern society, people tend to avoid thinking on and discussing the subject of death. But, it is our destiny that all human beings finally come to be confronted with the event of death. Especially, the pastor is in a position to help not only the dying but the bereaved family. In this essay, we confined our discussion to the problems of the bereaved. We know that the bereaved open suffers from abnormal mourning reactions. Although the help of a psychiatrist is commonly needed to overcome the distorted mourning reaction in a sense that he elaborates on the human needs and their complexities, the pastor is often the first one consulted for help. In fact, a number of mourners want to counsel with a pastor from a need for the solace that religious faith offers, from a need to reaffirm the belief that suffering has purpose and meaning. Therefor, it is important that he is able to recognize and understand all the manifestation of abnormal mourning, and be prepared to give counselling.