This research explores the subfertile women’s experience of a sense of loss by a qualitative research method. The purpose of this research is to examine effective interventions of Christian counselors in order to help subfertile women recover from their sense of loss. The participants of this research were seven subfertile women, age of 32–38, who were diagnosed as subfertility and were on in vitro fertilization and embryo transfer. The research method employed was phenomenological study by Colaissi(1978) that categorizes the common themes among statements by research participants. As a result, forty–six meaningful statements, fourteen themes, and seven theme clusters were extracted from interview: sense of loss for female identity, sense of loss for relationships, sense of loss for motherly experience, sense of loss for hope, sense of loss for joy, and sense of loss for intimate sexual experience. Based on the result, the researchers explain the subfertile women’s experience of sense of loss from the psycho–social perspective. Reflection on experience of subfertility from the Christian perspective was also provided. In conclusion, considering that the subfertile women’s experience of a sense of loss was caused by oppressed narratives and distorted thoughts, the researchers suggest narrative counseling, cognitive restructuring, and support group, as effective counseling interventions for recovering the subfertile women’s sense of loss.